My husband said he would never return. Left and never returned

The fair half of humanity has many questions that they are looking for answers to and cannot find. Girlfriends share their secrets with each other, just as daughters tell their mothers “secret” information regarding their personal lives. After all, the relationship between a man and a woman is something special and fascinating.

If a woman consults a specialist, then most likely 99% will hear the phrase that she does not need to delve into what others tell her, otherwise she will do a lot of stupid things and make a lot of mistakes. But how should a woman behave in a situation when a man first leaves and then returns. How can she understand the logic of his actions and actions? Let's look at the most popular questions.

How often do men return to their ex-woman?

Based statistics- more than 50% of men returned at least once after leaving their woman. Why do men so often, having decided on desperate measures, strive to turn everything back? Several reasons can be described here. The first and, perhaps, most important thing is that they realized how wrong they were. The second reason is that they are tormented by nostalgia, which in reality is just a force of habit. A man will repeatedly remember his ex-woman, especially in the first two to three months. He will find shared photos, gifts from his beloved or a memory in his head. And he will scroll through them over and over again, remembering and torturing himself more and more.

Psychology of men who will return

To man left, he must have a good reason, to just break off the relationship, pack his things and leave the woman with whom he lived side by side for many years, this is very difficult in terms of morality. If a man is looking for a reason to leave his woman, it means that he is weak morally; he cannot decide whether he should stay or whether it would be better to break off the relationship.

He has constant doubts, he is in the middle of the bridge and does not know which way he should go. Such men are indecisive and irresponsible, they will try with all their might to find a reason for a scandal, in order to once again find out that the woman does not suit him, and picturesquely leave the apartment with their things.

Some people might hate them of people, someone does not understand them, but when the same situation occurs to you, you understand how wrong you were from the outside. After all, there is nothing more difficult than understanding what you want, who you want and where you want to go.

Psychology of men who are unlikely to return

Not returned men who have a strong character and a clear goal in front of them. They do not return to those women who cheated on a man or caused very severe pain. Men appreciate it when there is peace, tranquility and happiness in the family, because where, if not here, can they take a break from work and people, see their loved ones and please them?

This is not to say that everything depends on. The more likely truth will be the coincidence of all the factors that come together to help a man make his decision - whether to return or not.

Psychology of men who will never return

Won't come back men who even before the breakup followed the logic - “I said - I did”, who make decisions quickly, and do not spend a lot of time thinking about the consequences, they just take it and do it. Such a man has a strong and steely character and he knows what he wants. And let him later regret a thousand times that he did just that, but no one will know or notice.

If a man found new girl or woman, with whom he began to develop a trusting relationship, with whom he feels like a king, and she feels like a queen, where in a relationship care for each other and love come first, then what is the point of a man returning to his former family?

The influence of reasons for leaving on the likelihood of a man returning

What already mentioned earlier in the text, the reason for leaving is one of the most important factors when breaking up a relationship. If a faithful and faithful woman is waiting for a man at home loving wife, which will not overload her husband’s house over trifles, then why would the man leave? The male sex is famous for its habits, in other words, if a man is happy with everything, then what is the point of ruining everything and going into the unknown?

If man left after a serious quarrel in the heat of anger, which means there is a high probability that he will return when he cools down. A person has such a temperament and such a psychology of thinking. He needs to take a walk fresh air, think it over, calm down, and only then can he return home.

If a divorce occurs in a family, this does not mean the end of the relationship. Very often, husbands who leave their wives for their mistresses return home after a while and confess. Why does this happen, and how should wives of abusive husbands behave?

Why do husbands leave?

Experience knows many cases when a husband leaves the family, but then returns, and the couple continues to live happily ever after. Women are much more tolerant than men and are able to forgive a lot. In the life of almost every woman there has been a betrayal of a loved one and subsequent forgiveness. Men are designed in such a way that cheating is a common thing for them, a physiological process that means nothing. Most often, a husband cheats on his wife because this corresponds to the status of a male, because it is interesting. There are often cases when betrayal occurs under the influence of alcohol. Unlike women who painfully experience their own betrayal, men do not attach importance to their adventures. special significance. Even if they are guilty, there will be no long-term worries, and after the wife’s forgiveness is received, the betrayal will most likely happen again. And this situation is the norm for many men. They can cheat 5 times and be forgiven the same number of times, since for their wives the main thing is spiritual fidelity.

But if the husband packed his things and left, this does not indicate just physiological sex or sports interest. A family man, accustomed to the comfort of home, ironed shirts and delicious dinners, is unlikely to leave his family for the sake of a passing hobby. He is more likely to quietly meet with his mistress, but will not sacrifice his own comfort. Men leave for other women for the following reasons:

Love. Such cases happen when first love meets. Old feelings flare up with renewed vigor, and this relationship ends with the husband wanting to leave the family. Men also fall in love with other women during a midlife crisis. The desire to feel younger pushes older husbands into the arms of young girls.
Cheating wife. Men female infidelity They forgive very rarely. This is a blow to their male pride, which not everyone can survive.
Problems of a psychological nature. A man wants to leave home, where there is an unfavorable emotional atmosphere, where there are constant omissions, quarrels, where he is not understood. Often there are problems in a married couple due to disagreements in life views, issues of religion and raising children.
Financial and household problems. Problems can also arise due to lack of money. If a wife reproaches her husband for his financial insolvency and nags him about this, sooner or later he will leave his wife.
Problems in intimate life. A man's sexual life lasts quite a few years, right up to old age. And even after a year of family life, husbands need full intimacy. Women, while busy with everyday life and children, stop paying due attention to their spouses.
Wife's appearance. IN family life husbands see their wives unkempt and unkempt, dressed in a completely unfeminine way. And at work, on the contrary, every day they see beautiful female colleagues in fashionable outfits, fragrant with perfume. Comparing, men every day stop looking at their wives as women. Hence the problems in sex life, irritability, dissatisfaction with each other.

Where do husbands go?

Families do not always break up because of other women. And not every man, having gained freedom, strives to lose it again. If the husband left the family for his mistress, he will go to her. If the reasons for the breakup are different, then the man’s temporary refuge can be:

parental home;
rental apartment;
friend's house;
cottage or garage;
office;
car.

In extreme cases, the spouse quits his job and moves to another city. If he does not find a permanent place of residence, you can be sure: having been pushed around, he will definitely return.

How long will it take for my husband to return home?

As already mentioned, if a husband leaves the family, this does not necessarily mean forever. Some time will pass and he may return. It all depends on some circumstances:

the reason why the husband left the family;
How will your relationship develop after the breakup?
What will you do to get him back?

If the husband left for his mistress, then, as practice shows, he will leave her. When the candy-bouquet period ends. It lasts on average 3-4 months. If you analyze why your husband left for someone else, you can identify the following reasons:

the mistress is more attractive than you, more well-groomed;
she has a lot of free time, so she can devote it only to your husband;
she is not burdened with worries;
she does not burden her husband with everyday problems, does not nag him;
he is experienced in sex.

In three or four months, the scales will fall from your husband’s eyes, and he will see that his mistress is an ordinary woman, just like you and hundreds of other women. She may also walk around unkempt and come home from work tired. She will ask her husband to hammer a nail and take out the trash. He will understand that he has not acquired anything new and therefore will return to his old life, that is, to you.

Why do husbands come back?

When your husband announced that he was leaving forever, it seemed to you that this was the end of the family, the end of the relationship. But statistics show that unfaithful husbands return in most cases. And this happens due to the following factors:

Habit. Men themselves don’t notice how they get used to certain things, little things. And only life with another woman reveals these little things. He notices that his mistress does not cook as well as his wife, likes the wrong films and programs, listens to different music. And he comes back because he is unable to change his habits.
Change of world view. If the husband left for someone else or simply left home, this probably happened in the heat of emotion. After time passes, the man realizes the value of the family, his mistakes and will return.
Reconciliation. After the husband leaves home, communication with his wife and children still continues. And over time, all the anger and resentment disappears.

How to cope with your husband's departure

If the husband left and does not want to return, it will be unpleasant, painful and offensive for any woman. The moment he said he was leaving, it seemed like betrayal and betrayal. The first thought that comes to the wife’s mind is, of course, a mistress. But, as already mentioned, the husband does not always leave for another woman.

The breakup period for a woman lasts in several stages:

Suffering– why did your husband leave? What is my fault? How to live further? During this period, a lot of stupid things are done in the heat of the moment, which both spouses later regret.
Pride. Having cooled down a little, women think: so what if the husband left and didn’t call. So what if he's gone forever. I will live without him, but he will disappear.
Again suffering. And pity for myself, for my husband. The woman is already ready to forgive everything in the world, if only he would return.

During these periods, a woman can do a lot of stupid things that she needs to beware of. Under no circumstances should you shed tears, beg, arrange a showdown with your mistress, or blackmail with children. The main thing is to give time for sobriety of mind to return, and after that you can already think about what to do.

How to return your husband to your family

If the reason for the breakdown of your relationship was not your mistress, then how soon he will return depends only on you. You need to wait a few weeks, let both cool down and think, and then take action. If his departure was scandalous, you definitely need to talk and apologize. Surely, he will also apologize, realizing his mistakes.

You need to analyze well and understand what exactly is to blame. If a husband leaves the family, this indicates that something does not suit him. This means that not everything was smooth in the family. After a little time has passed, you need to meet and talk openly. If you cannot resolve the issue without scandals, communicate via letters or SMS messages. Find out what exactly your husband doesn’t like about you, understand why exactly you behave this way. Under no circumstances should you mutually reproach him or blame him. Agree, promise to improve and be just as honest about your complaints.

The next step is correction. It is not enough to promise, you need to take action. Start changing. Your husband will return if he sees you as a beloved and desirable woman.

take care of your appearance, you should always be well-groomed and attractive;
be calm and restrained, do not allow yourself to turn into a hysteric;
be more relaxed in bed so that he doesn’t even think about other women;
be gentle, affectionate and calm.

Today it is not difficult to work on yourself. You can turn to a psychologist for help, attend special trainings, watch motivational films, and read relevant literature. It all depends on your desire to return your husband.

If you know that your husband has left for his mistress, you need to be cunning. If she somehow attracted your spouse, it means you need to become even better. Moreover, you have a great advantage: you are his wife, which means you can call him at any time and ask him for anything.

Act kindly and openly, use any excuse to invite him home. After all, he can visit the children.
When your husband comes home, cook his favorite dish, as if by chance, put on his favorite movie. When he comes to you, he should see a pleasant and familiar environment.
And don't forget about yourself. You must be attractive, friendly, cheerful and caring.
When you feel that he is already wholeheartedly with you, in the family, seduce him. There is no need to be shy or feel awkward, because this is your husband. It is his mistress who should feel shame, since because of her he left you.

After a certain time, he will understand that this is his home, you are his wife, and his beloved children are nearby.

In some situations, the husband leaves home just to teach his wife a lesson, to show her what she can lose. In any case, it is important to recognize mistakes in time, apologize to each other and forgive. After all, a moment may come when reconciliation will be impossible.

Many partners get back together after breaking up, having experienced other relationships, become disappointed, realizing their mistakes and how dear and close the person they broke up with is. The long-term existence of such a happy, reunited union is possible only on the condition that both understand, sincerely forgive each other, both try to avoid previous mistakes, trust, preserve those feelings that exist, cherish, respect each other. You need to think everything over yourself, analyze the reason for the separation and your desire to renew the relationship with this particular person, make a decision - perhaps he performed a certain function next to you, gave you experience and there was no longer any point in being together. But no matter what happens now, you can always take a step yourself to be with him, from a psychological point of view, a lot depends on you, on your behavior, desires, plans, because we ourselves create and organize the space around us, attract events, people your own thoughts, behavior, statements, desires and attitudes, even your appearance. If you want to be with your husband, you feel that there is something between you that is worth trying for - act on your own, don’t be afraid of anything, don’t listen to other people’s advice. Never expect that someone will make you happier - do what you want, according to your own ideas about happiness. Any issues related to the relationship in a couple should be discussed with the other half. Only the two of you can come to a common opinion, develop the necessary new models of behavior, and change tactics. Because you both participate in this process and one person must know how the other feels, he himself may not understand it. In a couple’s problems there is always a role for both, we are treated the way we allow. Building a relationship according to your ideals is work, although the pay is quite decent - mutual understanding, harmony in all areas, love, sincere joint emotions. If possible, develop them, add previously missing emotions, impressions, words, meetings, events. In any case, you should always talk to a man about everything (silence breaks destinies, as Paulo Coelho says). Be sure to talk to him sincerely and openly about everything that worries you, not from the position of a victim, but from the position of a mature person. Let it be romantic dinner, arrange it first of all for yourself. Maybe in a conversation it will turn out that you are close and dear to each other and it will be possible to establish an emotional connection again - this is precisely the magic thread that keeps couples together for many years (not material wealth, not a sense of duty, not property acquired together, and not even children, but real feelings for each other). Tell him how you feel about him, how dear, loved, valuable he and your relationship are to you, what you personally want, simply and calmly say it, don’t ask for anything, don’t demand, don’t make excuses. Love is a feeling that makes us happy; it cannot be begged for, just like respect, attention, warmth. But loved ones must know how we feel about them, how we value them. Remember what he loves, what he would dream of doing, what makes him happy and gives him pleasure, and organize situations so that, if possible, he does all this, thanks to you, together with you. Always do something pleasant and pleasing to both of you - it is the shared experience of emotions that unites people. Radiate joy, positivity and they will definitely return to you. Give and receive kindness, affection, care - this is the key to harmony in all areas of relationships. There are no perfect people and ideal relationship, everything is in your hands, whatever you want, create the same (not with this person, but with another, worthy one), you will succeed, because everything around us, our whole life, its circumstances depend on our perception of them, on us themselves. It is we ourselves, through our own efforts, who form our small world, we program our future. Think about it, how you want to see it, this is how it will be: if you expect bad things - it will happen, believe and wait with all your soul only for good things - they will definitely come into your life. Just don’t let your feeling of happiness and fullness of life depend on the presence of other people/persons in it, never dissolve in anyone, maintain your psychological integrity. You deserve to be loved and happy, without doing anything special for this, without deserving, without suffering. Perhaps the outcome of your meeting will be different, in any case for the better for you, you will understand this. Good luck to you, harmony and love. If you want to understand yourself and the situation, write to the chat, I’ll be happy to help, everything is confidential. I will be grateful for your assessment.

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This article is a continuation of the article "How to return a loved one? And whether it is necessary to return him." Therefore, before reading it, I recommend reading the first part.

So, let’s continue the conversation about how to get a man back.

Third. What is the probability that the man will return?

To simplify it completely, we can say the following. There is something that attracts a man to you. But there is something that repels. (Otherwise he wouldn’t have left, right?). Therefore, the more you can find something that attracts and less that repels, the easier it will be to get your man back.

What attracts a man to a woman? Attracts love, emotions, shared experiences, your sexuality, self-confidence, etc. Accordingly, the conclusion is simple: the more of these emotions remain, or the more advantages you have, the higher, other things being equal, the likelihood that the man will return.

How to determine whether a man has such emotions towards you or not? If a man tried to save your relationship before leaving, argued a lot, maybe even shouted, did something (it doesn’t matter in this case whether it was right or wrong), was clearly worried about the breakup, and is still trying to prove something to you, then there are forces that attract a man to you.

If the breakup proceeded sluggishly, the man did not even try to prove anything, argue, did not slam doors or worry, then there are clearly few attractive forces left. Accordingly, in this case, the likelihood of a man returning to you decreases. This usually happens when a woman was unable to change herself (and a man, of course, too) at the time when it needed to be done. And then there were the same conflicts, perhaps repeating the same scenario for several months and years, without any hope of resolution.

After this, the man and woman no longer believe that something can be changed, they are tired and the energy of love, mediocrely spent on proving that they were right, instead of real changes, left the relationship.

Now about what repels a man from a woman and what to do about it?

Here Here and lies the most secret secret happy relationship and the answer to the question “how to get a man back,” so to speak, is not at all in strengthening love feelings (although this is important, of course). The main attention should be paid not to strengthening love feelings, but to reducing the negative qualities that push a man out of your relationship. No matter what you do, in any case, love feelings (call them hormones) inevitably weaken over time. It is difficult to control and strengthen them, and what is important is that you can strengthen them twice as much, but not more.

Qualities that repel men can be reduced hundreds of times, often with relatively little effort. To return to the topic of the article, if you can reduce the qualities that push men away, he will most likely return.

What are the pushing qualities?

In your case, I don’t know the specifics, of course. But if the man left, then the woman drove him out through some of her actions. This is an axiom.

If a man did not date a woman only for Don Juan reasons, then he will never leave a woman just like that. So she kicked him out.

The conclusion from this axiom is very simple. If you remove from a woman’s behavior what drives a man away, then the man will return. (I assume, of course, that at least minimal forces remain that attract a man to a woman).

Now once again about the chances of the man returning. As you probably already understood, the chances are higher, the stronger the man’s attraction to you and the extent to which you can remove from your behavior what repels the man from you. Time is just as important. Eat optimal time Returns range from 10 days to 2 months. If a man has not returned for more than 2-3 months, then the chances are already insignificant, and there is no point in counting on his return. (Although there are exceptions, of course).

Fourth. Technique for returning a man.

If a man left, after which he went somewhere to Australia and no longer writes to you or shows himself in any way, then, of course, it’s unlikely that anything can be done. However, this is more of an exception to the rule. So now let’s talk about how to get it back?

For the most part, after 2-3 weeks, and for some protracted conflicts even after a month or two, the man will somehow meet you, learn about you from your friends, or show himself in some other way.

If you have changed, that is, you have at least learned to attract men to you and removed repulsive behavior, if you are ready for him to return just like that (I wrote about this in the first part), and if you are still free, then he will almost certainly will come back, sometimes even if he left for another woman. (Maybe you don’t need it in this case, but that’s another question).

In fact, everything is very simple. Implementation is also not very difficult. What should I change about myself? I think you know this better than me, but a quick questionnaire for thought.

Why have you been constantly “training” (pressuring) a man lately, but he still hasn’t changed? This is one of the most important questions. If you can accept a man in this matter as he is, with some of his shortcomings, then this is a huge step forward. What could it be?

— Bad habits, (smoking, etc.)

- Selfishness,

- Sloppiness,

- Inability to listen and support.

You may ask that I should put up with my man’s laziness and selfishness? No, I am not suggesting this in a strategic sense, that is, in the long term. But a woman criticizes a man (as often vice versa) not at all in order for him to improve, but in order to feel her importance, or by implementing her childhood programs and complexes. After all, you’re not going to seriously prove to me that a woman wants a man’s correction by criticizing him for 10-20 years in a row, and most importantly, seeing that it doesn’t work at all?

Of course not. It's not a matter of wanting to fix something.

If you want to fix it, then fix it. Take one quality and find effective technique, help him train, don’t demand quick results, be calm about any return to the old, encourage the man’s efforts, etc. But just don't criticize.

But first you need to remove the program in yourself that provokes a man to return to the old way. After all, it is the woman who often subconsciously prevents a man from changing. (For example, it is no secret that the wives of alcoholics, despite the often enormous efforts they make to cure their husband, then unconsciously provoke him in every possible way to make him relapse). The best way to read about parenting programs and methods for correcting male negative habits is in the book by Anastasia Gai "How to make a man get off the couch 2. Secrets of happy women".

- The second thing you can do. Think about what your man constantly asked, especially before leaving, but you considered it unimportant and did not do it.

For example, he whined that you don’t delve into his affairs, that you don’t know how to praise him, that you don’t appreciate this and that, that you cut your hair short, but he likes long hair that you don't say that you love him, that you don't greet him when he comes home. Maybe he wanted you to stop criticizing him over every little thing. (And 95% of what happens in our lives, because of which a man and a woman criticize each other, are, by and large, little things).

If you think that you have already laid down your life for a man and are working for him as a servant, then, of course, you urgently need to develop self-confidence and remove the role of “mother” from yourself. How to do this is also described in detail in the book by Anastasia Gai “How to make a man get off the couch 2. Secrets of happy women.”

Of course, you have your own list. Take a couple of the most important points and remove them from your behavior.

— Third thing to do. Don't hope too much that the man will return.

It is, firstly, true that a man may not return, despite any behavior you may have.

Secondly, the hope of a return only worsens the man’s chances of this very return. The ideal ratio is “it’s good if it comes back, but if it doesn’t, then no.”

Even if you do everything absolutely correctly, this only increases the likelihood of his return several times, but is not a guarantee of a return to the relationship.

— Mind your own business. It doesn't matter what you do. Change
hairstyles, take classes, play sports, go somewhere, flirt with someone.

Don’t think that you will miss your man’s arrival or his call. On the contrary, you will only attract. This point is much more important than it seems. You need to mind your own business not only to take your mind off the thought that the man has left.

Often the process itself Minding your own business attracts men far more than anything else. After all, if a woman is only busy thinking about “the only one,” then, in the man’s opinion, nothing interesting is happening in the woman’s life and there is no need to return.

If a woman is doing something other than thinking about a man, then her ex-partner becomes curious about what is happening there, and even in his absence? Don’t forget that men are owners and are often not ready to let a woman go so easily, especially if he still has some positive emotions towards you.

Just, of course, again, don’t expect this, but really immerse yourself in your affairs and essentially come to terms with the fact that the man will not return.

— If you start communicating somehow, do not force this communication, and as I already said, don’t get your hopes up that it will necessarily lead to the man returning.

If a man only wants to talk, then listen, ask something yourself. If you're just going for a walk, then take a walk. Consider this new man, which should conquer you, and not the other way around.

Do not rush to live together again, because quarrels can break out with renewed vigor, especially if you are not very intensively engaged in accepting a man, have not had time to practice some skills, or simply too little time has passed. After all, you need a lasting result, and not just the fact that the man returned, and a week later he left again (or you kicked him out). And at a distance it is much easier to change something in yourself and think about it.

— Should you show initiative in communication? You know my opinion, I am against this. Maybe organize a “random” meeting and ask how his life is and listen, but that's the maximum for the most active women. Even if you cannot control yourself at all, then in any case do not write about your love for him. This is all, practically the end of the relationship. If your hands don’t listen to you and type SMS messages themselves, then just apologize and that’s enough. Do not write repeated SMS and do not wait for a response.

It will be much better if you first come to your senses and then change. Men can feel 100 km away. that the woman began to accept it. It seems to me that men don’t even need to see a woman or find out any information about her for this, everything is transmitted through the air. Be prepared for his call or “chance” meeting.

- If three months or more have passed, you haven’t started dating again, but all you do is remember about ex-man, then you need to reformulate the problem. Not “how to get a man back,” but how to get rid of addiction to a man. Already with this wording of the question, you can look for answers. The easiest way is to start remembering the negative traits and actions of the person who left, maybe remembering with a friend who didn’t like him.

Just don’t get hung up on this exercise for the rest of your life, as is the case with some women. They forgot a specific man and that’s enough. There is no need to come to the conclusion that all men are not very good.

Of course, advice in such a situation is sometimes quite difficult to reach a person. Therefore, if everything is really bad, then read only the first part of the article several times. If you have come to your senses at least to a minimum, then be sure to do the other steps. I would like, as usual, at the end of the article to say that do it and the man will definitely return. But in this case this is not entirely true.

Therefore, it’s more like this. Do whatever is necessary. Mind your own business, remove from your thinking and behavior what repels men. If you do this, then either this man will return, or everything will work out with another man.

Best regards, Rashid Kirranov.

Today you are sure that you are doing everything right. I am convinced that people like you will not be abandoned. You have no doubt that he is yours forever, the only one in the world capable of listening, understanding, sympathizing, reassuring, supporting, protecting. This is today, and tomorrow... he can leave.

Marriage is a long swim in a cramped cabin. And it’s natural that nerves sometimes give way.

Perhaps the reason was a banal little thing - finding out who the real Winner of Eurovision 2011 is, or discussing the family budget, but now - the man left. Just don't panic! Could it happen that you no longer need him? Maybe you are simply not yet able to understand that his departure is yours. Take a break, think while you have time. But, if there is still something to fight for, then remember that, most likely, you will have a chance to fix everything. Because husbands most often return.

After he leaves, you “tear your hair out” and are tormented by questions:

why did this happen to me?
Is he better off with her than with me?
will he come back or not?

Why did he leave? You can and should analyze your life with him, look for reasons in yourself, in him, in yours... Such an analysis will not hurt. Sooner or later, life forces everyone to look back on the years they have lived and experience the bitter feeling of parting with youth, with love. There is a need to reconsider your priorities.

Comment on the article "My husband left. Will he come back or not?"

“You can’t step into the same river twice”... I have a situation, but on the contrary, I want my husband to take into account everything that happened in the past, I can’t be his wife, I want everything to be fair. It’s just that in the future I will be able to make another man happy...
If it doesn’t work out, then let me run out of happiness in this world, it’s like it’s useless to renew it... this is the wrong person, not mine...
In principle, I could live on an animal habit, have sex without respect, and pity, but I don’t want to lie to myself.

02/20/2011 09:00:55, ramillya

either he will return or not: 50% to 50%.

02/19/2011 20:18:00, sympathetic

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