Bad rules. Bad rules of good manners

Lantine was not even going to pretend to be a know-it-all - the girl was very bad at making friends with cards, and in general she was lousy at navigating the terrain. Certain areas hometown, of course, she knew well, but even that was achieved not through gatherings in an embrace with the atlas, but through long and hard exercises. You will get lost ten times - and on the eleventh you will remember that if you again rush into the alley on the left hand, you will fly straight into the impenetrable wilds of Huchitan and you will safely winter there. In foreign cities, there was no opportunity and time to wind such stubborn circles between the three houses. Usually, finding herself in an unfamiliar city, Lantine hurriedly looked for someone who knew the area to lean on and honestly admit what a stupid butterfly she was. Lhasa, on the other hand, for an impressively long time, did not offer any options at all that would allow things to be arranged in a similar way here. And when Evgenia had already reconciled herself and clutched at the map with all four, intending to die, but to squeeze out the information she needed from waste paper, the city took it and became generous with the interlocutor, from whom one could try to ask everything out without engaging in bloody battles.
Well, isn't meanness, damn it, huh?
"Eugenia," Lantine introduced herself in response. And for a short second she regretted that her name did not seem to have an abbreviation that would sound as easy and deft as the name of her new acquaintance. "Eugenia" - seems to sound too monolithic to be easy.
But this is still absolutely no reason not to love your name and want to be renamed at the first opportunity. Lantine does not carry such nonsense in his head - there are enough cockroaches in this attic even without such a picky scorpion.
Evgenia believed immediately and unconditionally that the card was upside down - whether it was a prank or not, it doesn’t matter, anyway, the girl had no opportunity to check and establish the truth. Lantine obediently lowered her pen, which had been raised above the paper with inspiration, and stared at the map in confusion - feeling as if a light had suddenly been turned on in her head, and the cockroach, which in the brain had agreed to be responsible for geography and orientation, instead of hiding under the refrigerator, heaped this the refrigerator itself on its back and rushed out of the kitchen with a cry of "since you are like this with me, then I can finally leave you!". In my head, just looking at the map, a weightless, almost audibly ringing emptiness began to form. The girl honestly admitted: - I do not think that if I turn it over now, it will somehow help me. Won't help at all. But did I even find this charitable institution correctly? - and Evgenia looked at Theo with hope. Please, they say, say that I am at least not completely hopeless, this will very, very noticeably raise the morale of the fighter.

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In fact, the basics of etiquette are quite simple. This is a culture of speech, elementary politeness, neat appearance and the ability to manage your emotions.

website presents you a selection of current rules for today that every self-respecting person and others should know.

  • If you say the phrase: "I invite you," it means you pay. Another wording: "Let's go to a restaurant" - in this case, everyone pays for himself, and only if the man himself offers to pay for the woman, she can agree.
  • Never visit without calling. If you are visited unannounced, you can afford to be in a dressing gown and curlers. One British lady said that when uninvited guests she always puts on shoes, a hat and takes an umbrella. If a person is pleasant to her, she will exclaim: “Oh, how lucky, I just came!”. If unpleasant: "Oh, what a pity, I have to leave."
  • Do not place your smartphone on a table in public places. In doing so, you show how important the communication device is in your life and how much you are not interested in annoying chatter going on nearby. At any moment you are ready to leave useless conversations and once again check your Instagram feed, answer an important call or take a break to find out what fifteen new levels have come to Angry Birds.
  • You should not invite a girl on a date and communicate with her through SMS messages.
  • The man never wears women's bag. AND woman coat he takes only to bring to the locker room.
  • If you are walking with someone and your companion says hello to a stranger, you should also say hello.
  • Many people think that sushi can only be eaten with chopsticks. However, this is not entirely correct. Men, unlike women, can eat sushi with their hands.
  • Shoes should ALWAYS be clean.
  • Do not talk on the phone with empty chatter. If you're in need of a heart-to-heart conversation, it's best to meet with a friend face to face.
  • If you have been insulted, you should not respond with similar rudeness, and, moreover, raise your voice to the person who insulted you. Don't stoop to his level. Smile and politely move away from the ill-mannered interlocutor.
  • On the street, a man should walk to the left of the lady. On the right, only military personnel can go, who must be ready to perform a military salute.
  • Drivers should remember that cold-bloodedly spraying passers-by with mud is flagrant incivility.
  • A woman may keep her hat and gloves on indoors, but not her hat and mittens.
  • Nine things should be kept secret: age, wealth, a gap in the house, prayer, the composition of the medicine, a love affair, a gift, honor and dishonor.
  • Having come to the cinema, theater, to a concert, you should only go to your seats facing those who are sitting. The man goes first.
  • A man always enters the restaurant first, the main reason is that on this basis the head waiter has the right to draw conclusions about who is the initiator of coming to the institution and who will pay. In case of arrival big company- enters first and pays the one from whom the invitation to the restaurant came. But if a porter meets visitors at the entrance, then the man must let the first woman through. After that, the gentleman finds free places.
  • You should never touch a woman unwillingly, take her hand, touch her during a conversation, push her or take her hand above the elbow, except when you help her get into or out of a vehicle, or cross the street .
  • If someone calls you impolitely (for example: “Hey, you!”), You should not respond to this call. However, there is no need to lecture, educate others during a short meeting. It is better to teach an etiquette lesson by your own example.
  • The golden rule when using perfume is moderation. If by the evening you smell your perfume, know that everyone else has already suffocated.
  • A well-bred man will NEVER allow himself not to show due respect to a woman.
  • In the presence of a woman, men smoke only with her permission.
  • Whoever you are - a director, an academician, an elderly woman or a schoolboy - when you enter the room, say hello first.
  • Keep correspondence confidential. Parents should not read letters intended for their children. Spouses should do the same with each other. Anyone who rummages through the pockets of loved ones in search of notes or letters is doing extremely ugly.
  • Don't try to keep up with fashion. It is better to look not fashionable, but good, than fashionable and bad.
  • If after an apology you are forgiven, you should not return to the offensive question again and ask for forgiveness again, just do not repeat such mistakes.
  • Laughing too loudly, talking noisily, staring at people intently is offensive.
  • Do not forget to thank loved ones, relatives and friends. Their good deeds and willingness to offer their help is not an obligation, but an expression of feelings worthy of gratitude.

And finally, here are the words of the legendary American actor Jack Nicholson:

“I am very sensitive to the rules good manners. How to pass a plate. Do not shout from one room to another. Do not open a closed door without knocking. Let the lady go ahead. The purpose of all these countless simple rules- make life better. We cannot live in a state of chronic war with our parents - this is stupid. I am careful about my manners. It's not some kind of abstraction. It is a language of mutual respect that everyone understands.”

What would life look like if there was absolutely no fear in it, and you lived to the fullest? Don't stand on your dream, move forward, follow your dreams and enjoy life.

1. Girls won't make you happy.

Happiness is in YOU, not in other people...or the things you have to buy. This society wants you to think that in order to look outwardly or in other things, you must pay for your happiness. But this can only bring temporary happiness. Most girls are unhappy with their lives and they are looking for a man who will make them happy. In fact, they are looking for a happy man to jump into his life and take over his life. That is why you must focus on yourself first before you bring anyone else into your life.

2. If you do not change, then you will remain in the same place.

It's simple. The same actions will bring the same results. If you're not happy with what you're getting out of life, it's time to change. Try anything but don't stand still because braking will take you exactly where you are now. Moving in a new direction will lead to new results.

3. What would you do if you didn't have the slightest fear?

Can you imagine what your life would look like if there was absolutely no fear in it? Ask yourself what would you do, how would you behave? Then start doing those things, little by little, get rid of the fear yourself and reprogram yourself to do the things you really want to do. When you kill your fear, you will be FREE.

4. The sooner you forget your ex girlfriend the sooner you find a new one.

Most guys, after they break up with a girl, they think about her for many months. It's normal to have feelings for this girl after a long-term relationship, but the sooner you forget about her, the sooner you will find yourself a new girl. Know that the end is a new beginning. It's great to always have a spare girl in your life, so when you break up with one girl, you can jump on another. This is the reason why you should always stay social and go out in the field, no matter how hot and beautiful your girl is. There is always a chance that you will break up.

5. Don't wait for girls to come to you.

You must always be pro-active. It's a very bad idea to stay at home and think, "This will happen by itself." This is how girls think because they generally play a more passive role in society. It's written in your genes that we are the stronger sex, the hunters, the ones who make things happen. This has been going on for a million years. Don't betray your genes and evolve.

6. If you think you can get a girl, you can.

It is very important to stay focused on the positive and confident in your every action, sooner or later you will be rewarded. Avoid negative thoughts, girls can feel this, and since they will soon sense that you are a “bad thinker”, they will leave you.

7. Follow your dreams.

Never leave your dreams. They will motivate you. There is nothing on this planet that can stop you from fulfilling your dreams, except for yourself. There is nothing more important than your dreams. Life is too short not to make yourself happy.

8. Start hunting girls and ENJOY it.

You will soon realize that hunting is so much fun, it is often better than sex itself. Ultimately, girls enjoy sex more than guys. We get bored with one girl pretty quickly, and our genes motivate us to look for new girl to distribute our sperm. Whereas girls are programmed to find that "one special one" and raise children with it. So enjoy the hunt, enjoy the outings, and have fun doing it. This is our natural instinct.

9. Life is a constant change.

One who cannot adapt to a new environment- will die. To be truly successful in life and with women, you must use everything that life gives you. All your good and bad qualities. You must use all the disadvantages to your advantage. Loud music, dark clubs, your hobbies… everything! It's a skill to learn to take advantage of everything. It's a great mindset that you probably use when you're always asking yourself, "What can I do about this?" and “How can I use this to my advantage?”.

10. The more you sweat, the less success you will have.

Necessity is a big switch for everyone. When you want something too much, it lowers your value as a person. It means then that something is more important than you. So the key is: know on the inside what you want, but be cool, like you don't sweat too much on the outside or that it will come easy for you. The less you seem to sweat, and the easier things seem to you, the better results you will achieve.

11. Every girl is a potential girlfriend, whether you realize it or not.

Everything is a possibility. A girl walking down the street, two girls talking in a cafe, a girl who lives next door. If you take what life gives you and make the most of it, you will find many opportunities that you didn't even know were possible. New girl will come to you as a gift if you enjoy this challenge, make a move and kill your fear.

12. Fear of change will keep you from changing.

People are afraid of change. Most of them are zombies and they don't want to change for fear of the unknown. And of course, if you don't change, you will get what you always got. You must SEE the benefits of the change and take action immediately, even if it's inconvenient.

IN modern world not knowing the rules of etiquette means spitting against the wind, putting yourself in an uncomfortable position. Unfortunately, many perceive the observance of certain norms and rules of communication as something shameful, considering this a sign of high-browed aesthetes who are very far from real life. However, these people forget that rude and tactless behavior can cause the same reaction in response.

In fact, the basics of etiquette are quite simple. This is a culture of speech, elementary politeness, a neat appearance and the ability to manage one's emotions. Both apply to both men and women.

  1. If you say the phrase: "I invite you" means you pay. Another wording: "Let's go to a restaurant" - in this case, everyone pays for himself, and only if the man himself offers to pay for the woman, she can agree.
  2. Never do not come to visit without a call. If you are visited unannounced, you can afford to be in a dressing gown and curlers. One British lady said that when intruders appeared, she always put on shoes, a hat and took an umbrella. If a person is pleasant to her, she will exclaim: “Oh, how lucky, I just came!”. If unpleasant: "Oh, what a pity, I have to leave."
  3. Don't ask a girl out on a date and, even more so, to communicate like that with her.
  4. Do not place your smartphone on a table in public places. In doing so, you show how important the communication device is in your life and how much you are not interested in annoying chatter going on nearby. At any moment, you are ready to leave useless conversations and once again check the feed on Instagram, answer an important call or get distracted to find out what fifteen new levels have come to Angry Birds.
  5. Man never does not carry a women's bag. And he takes a woman's coat only to carry it to the locker room.
  6. Shoes should always be clean.
  7. If you are walking with someone and your companion says hello to you person, should say hello and you.
  8. Many people think that you can only eat with chopsticks. However, this is not entirely correct. Unlike women, men can eat sushi with their hands.
  9. Do not talk on the phone. If you're in need of a heart-to-heart conversation, it's best to meet with a friend face to face.
  10. If you have been insulted, you should not respond with similar rudeness, and, moreover, raise your voice to the person who insulted you. Don't get down up to his level. Smile and politely move away from the ill-mannered interlocutor.
  11. On the street the man should go to the left of the lady. On the right, only military personnel can go, who must be ready to perform a military salute.
  12. Drivers should remember that in cold blood splashing passers-by with mud is blatant incivility.
  13. A woman may keep her hat and gloves on indoors, but no hat and mittens.
  14. Nine things should be kept secret: age, wealth, a gap in the house, prayer, the composition of the medicine, a love affair, a gift, honor and dishonor.
  15. Arriving at the cinema, theater, to a concert, you should go to your seats only facing those seated. The man goes first.
  16. The man enters the restaurant always first, the main reason - on this basis, the head waiter has the right to draw conclusions about who is the initiator of coming to the institution, and who will pay. In the case of the arrival of a large company - enters first and pays the one from whom the invitation to the restaurant came. But if a porter meets visitors at the entrance, then the man must let the first woman through. Then he finds empty seats.
  17. Never you should not touch a woman without her desire, take her hand, touch her during a conversation, push her or take her hand above the elbow, except when you help her get into or out of a vehicle, or cross the street.
  18. If someone calls you impolitely (for example: "Hey, you!"), do not respond to this call. However, there is no need to lecture, educate others during a short meeting. It is better to teach an etiquette lesson by your own example.
  19. Golden Rule when using perfume - moderation. If by the evening you smell your perfume, know that everyone else has already suffocated.
  20. A well-mannered man will never allow himself to fail to show his due respect for a woman.
  21. In the presence of a woman, a man smokes only with her permission.
  22. Whoever you are - a director, an academician, an elderly woman or a schoolboy - entering the room, say hello first.
  23. Keep correspondence confidential. Parents should not read letters intended for their children. Spouses should do the same with each other. Anyone who rummages through the pockets of loved ones in search of notes or letters is doing extremely ugly.
  24. Don't try to keep up with fashion. It is better to look not fashionable, but good, than bad.
  25. If after an apology you are forgiven, you should not return to the offensive question again and ask for forgiveness again, just do not repeat such mistakes.
  26. Laughing too loudly, talking too loudly, intently looking at people is offensive.
  27. Don't forget to thank your loved ones people, relatives and friends. Their good deeds and willingness to offer their help is not an obligation, but an expression of feelings worthy of gratitude.

I am very sensitive to the rules of good taste. How to pass a plate. Do not shout from one room to another. Do not open a closed door without knocking. Let the lady go ahead. The purpose of all these countless simple rules is to make life better. We cannot live in a state of chronic war with our parents - this is stupid. I am careful about my manners. It's not some kind of abstraction. It is a language of mutual respect that everyone understands.

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Bad rules of good manners- the third numbered musical album of the group "Tonight", recorded in 2006 and released in 2007.

List of songs

  1. I've been waiting for a long time (Where)
  2. dance
  3. What's next?
  4. Anyone
  5. Strange thing. Love
  6. Chik-chik
  7. Cold as ice
  8. Tsunami
  9. It's all love
  10. Who is my God now?
  11. On the way (Be my love)

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An excerpt characterizing the Bad Rules of Good Form

He gently touched my hand and gradually the sadness disappeared. Only bitterness remained, as if I had lost something bright and dear ...
– You mustn't relax... War awaits you, Isidora.
– Tell me, Sever, was the teaching of the Cathars called the Teaching of Love because of Magdalene?
– Here you are not quite right, Isidora. The uninitiated called it the Teaching of Love. For those who understood, it carried a completely different meaning. Listen to the sound of words, Isidora: love sounds in French - amor (amour) - right? And now divide this word, separating the letter “a” from it ... It turns out a'mor (a "mort) - without death ... This is the true meaning of the teachings of Magdalene - the Teachings of the Immortals. As I told you before - everything it's simple, Isidora, if you only look and listen correctly... Well, for those who don't hear, let it remain the Teaching of Love... it's also beautiful.
I stood completely dumbfounded. The Teaching of the Immortals!.. Daariyah... So that was the teaching of Radomir and Magdalena!.. The North surprised me many times, but never before had I felt so shocked!.. magic power, and I could not forgive myself for not talking about this with the North before.
- Tell me, Sever, is there anything left of the records of the Cathars? There must have been something left? Even if not the Perfect Ones themselves, then at least just students? I mean something about their real life and teachings?