Family is a house, comfort in which depends on the presence of native people in it. Oddly enough, but this is the ratio of personal relationships, has different morals, as well as people individually. There are families of funny, incomplete, conservative or strict. Why does it happen? Yes, all because each union builds its life foundation based on family values. The family and its values \u200b\u200bare a kind of rear that protects and supports man throughout his life.
Proverbs about family and family values
- Parable of a full-fledged family.
At the University, a philosophy teacher showed an example of a full family on the base of stones, sand and banks.
So, taking the bank, the professor began to fill it with three centimeter stones. After that, I asked Students: whether the bank was filled. What they answered positively.
However, the teacher also threw the sand to the bank. The sand finally filled out all unoccupied places. And this time, students said that the bank was filled.
At this, the professor did not stop and poured two banks of beer to the bank. Accordingly, the liquid has tamped the sand.
And then the teacher explained that the bank served as an example of your life. Stones are those values \u200b\u200b(health, children, friends, family), without any life will not be full. Polka dots are necessary personally for each person things - car, real estate, work. Sand is the other little things.
For example, if the bank initially fill in sand, then, respectively, there will be no unoccupied space for stones. So in life, she crawling time for trifles, for more important things there is simply no place. A similar parallel tells us that in life it is necessary to give time to what brings us joy - these are walking with children, meeting with friends and loved ones. And on cleaning, repair and work time will always be left. Pay attention to important things in life.
After that, one student asked a teacher's question: what is the role playing beer? The teacher smiled and gave an explanation that beer once again It proves that as if you are busy not, there will always be time to drink this pair of cans.
- Bun.
This parable about a married couple and its unity on the example of buns.
One married couple lived together thirty years. And on the day of its anniversary, the wife speckled the bun, which she prepared daily - it was their tradition. She took the bottom half of the bank, and the husband eaten the top.
On this day, the wife wanted to take the top of the buns. She persuaded himself that throughout all years was an exemplary wife, mother and mistress and also deserves this half buns.
And so, cutting off the bun in half, she pulls the lower half her husband with trembling hands. After all, this is a violation of the thirty-year tradition - as a sort of change will react a husband that he will think. However, the husband, taking this part, said: This is a shatter-free gift from your side, since I believed that the lower half was always right in your right. Conclusion: Share with your close not only food, but also with your experiences, problems and joy.
Class hour: Family and family values
Purpose: understanding family values.
- Bring to participants The meaning of the "family" concept.
- Create conditions for reflection on the topic: "Family Values \u200b\u200band Traditions".
- Identify the influence of the family on the morality and humanism of students.
- First, the master honors poems about the family. After prompting each participant to bring associations related to the understanding of the family:
Family - Music ...
Family - color ...
Family - Movie Name ...
Family - Figure Geometry ...
Family - mood ...
Family - Building ...
- Next will result in family values \u200b\u200bon the basis of the video: "bad family", "happy family."
After that, a survey will be conducted among the participants:
- What movie liked more and why?
- What is the foundation of you laid your family?
- The presenter will show the video "What a family seems to be"
It will offer to cut daisy petals, and to each characterize the concept of "family".
After that, to imagine that every petal carries warmth and joy in itself, and transfer them to each other with the words: "I give you a small piece of happiness."
Keep traditions and values \u200b\u200bin your family and pass them through generations.
Traditional family values
Values \u200b\u200band create the foundation without which the family cannot develop.
For example, marriage should be based on love. Love is a kind of predisposition to another person, which is difficult to explain in words. Such unity of people is considered an essential value among all philosophical concepts and humanistic religions in history.
Proximity to people appear when they begin to take care and maintain each other in any situation. A person in his life more than once faces various problems that bring him experiences and bring his hopes. One is very difficult to experience such shocks. Therefore, a house filled with close people is some pier, where a person will always support and understand.
Not one union cannot be formed without mutual respect and understanding. Relationships go to the highest degree of development as between spouses, children or parents only when everyone will respect the goals and feelings of another person. In this case, forcibly trying to seek any changes to another personality is not allowed.
The pledge of purity in relationship is honesty and openness. Such quality refers to all unions. With its bright severity, they are the basis of confidence. As you know, you can easily miss the trust, but it is almost impossible to get it back.
List of family values \u200b\u200bcan be continued infinitely: faith, holiness of motherhood, marriage, loyalty ... It is necessary to understand the main thing - the meaning of all these qualities and the use of them in real life. After all, these traditional values \u200b\u200bin families contradict any changes in life - for example, a divorce.
Was Last Modified: January 9th, 2016 by Elena Weather
There is a lot of parable on Earth. Some of them are devoted to love, other family, third friendship. This list can be listed for a long time, but one thing is clear: each parable has an instructive nature and carries in itself
Sophisticated politeness
Proverbs about seven-party and mutual extension between husband and wife.
One married couple lived 50 years happily. On the day of the celebration of the wedding anniversary, the wife was preparing for her husband breakfast. She gently chopped bread and lubricated it with oil. And at that moment I was visited by the thought: "For the past 50 years, I try to please him and always give a crispy hunch of bread, which I love very much!" These thoughts caused her feelings of irritation and indignation.
The woman decided to make himself a gift on the day of the Golden Wedding and left a breadpid of herborse for himself. Aromatic meakish she smeared with oil and gave his husband. Seeing delighted and kissed the hand of the beloved woman with a smile. And after said: "My love, you gave me indescribable joy today! For 50 years, I do not eat breadfall. I know you love him very much. Therefore, I always left you left ... "
Who is right, who is to blame?
Parable O. happy family Reveals the secret of the prosperous relationship between spouses.
In the neighborhood there were 2 families. In one of them, the spouses were constantly quarreling and figured out relationships, and in the other, love always reigned, mutual understanding and silence.
The raining hostess could not understand how the neighbors manage to live without scandals. In the soul she envied them. One day a woman asked her husband to go to the neighbors and find out why everything was smooth in their life.
The man went to the neighboring window and neatly looked into the house. In the room he saw the hostess. She wiped dust. At that moment the phone rang, and the woman in the tricks put an expensive vase on the edge of the table. A few minutes later her husband entered the room. He did not notice the vase and hooked it. Expensive thing Fell on the floor and crumbled on fragments.
And then the neighbor thought: "Well, now the scandal will begin!"
But the woman came to his surprise to his spouse and calmly said: "Sorry, cute! I am to blame: I have accredited a vase! " What the spouse replied: "This is me sorry, dear! I am guilty that I did not notice her! "
Returned a neighbor home upset. His wife is prettring about the secret of family well-being. And her husband is responsible for her: "You see, the thing is that they have everything in the family, and we are right ..."
Parents and children
Proverbs about the family for children allow you to better understand parental love.
One old man lived in a distant country. He had many children. Not all loved him equally. The elderly father was offended by this and one day decided to leave the house. He went to an unfamiliar country. Having stayed there for some time, the old man felt longing for the house. He decided to travel to distract, but the legs still led him to his homeland. And then he saw that his children were happy, they live well and cultivate flowering gardens. Father was offended and decided to settle down from the family. The grandchildren more than once were resorted, but he was not happy with them, but demonstrated his insult.
When the old man died, the children came to him, buried him, and at the tomb of His love and respect for his father.
Short parables
Whatever creating pays about the family, short or long, they always teach a person to relate to life and appreciate their family.
Once the teacher asked Pupils: "Whose mom performs a lot of work?" The guys began to tell that they make their moms, trying to praise them.
Proverbs about the family is wisdom, tested by time.
One man wanted to find perfect wife. He concluded one marriage after another, but constantly disappointed in women. When a man was aged, he met his dreams of his dreams. He wanted to marry her and spend next to his beloved balance of his life. But the lady refused to him. Why? Just she was looking for an ideal man.
Eastern wisdom
Proverbs about the family is the truth, hint and field for fruitful reflections.
The rich eastern Mr. was a beautiful wife. But soon she was tired of him, and he began to complain to a friend on boredom in life. What a friend answered: "How can you say that? You have everything for happy life! " But Mr did not listen to him. Then a friend invited him to visit him and ordered to serve to breakfast, dinner and dinner sweets. When the guest is tired of such a treat, he asked usual bread and salt. What the buddy answered: "Look how sweetly the sweet!"
Proverbs about the family allow us to deal with the difficulties of relationships.
The Eastern ruler was asked how he managed to maintain peace and peace in the state. What he replied: "The state is like my family. When I'm angry, my people are calm. When they are angry, calm keep calm. We calm down and support each other in different periods of life. "
"Not easy" family
The famous Chinese parable "Field Family" most fully reveals the essence of the happy family relationship.
In one village there was a family of 100 people. It reigned a special atmosphere of the world, consent and mutual understanding. Never quarrel here, neither swear. This rumor reached the ruler of the country. I decided to check if it really was. Vladyka came to the village, found the chapter of the family and asked how he manages to maintain harmony between close people. The old man took a sheet of paper, he wrote on it for a long time, and then handed him to the ruler. On paper, 3 words were inscribed: "love", "patience" and "forgiveness." "And it's all?" - the ruler was surprised. What the old man answered: "Yes! This is the basis of not only a good family, but also the world as a whole ... "
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And what happened when nothing else was?
- How is it "nothing," baby?
- A, so. When I was not born, you were not born yet, and no one was born?
- Nobody?
- Yeah!
- It is clear, then the earth was empty, the mountains on it, the sea-oceans, the rivers are large and small, grass, forests and meadows, animals and birds, oh sorry ... There are no more, but they will soon be.
- No no no! So it is not considered! If there is no one, it means there is no one: no animals, no birds, no grass, nor forest!
- Okay. There are mountains, volcanoes, rivers, seas, deserts ...
- And what are they: have always been? But when they were not, what was, eh?
- Oh, what kind of meticulous! Okay. Once nothing else was. And land too. Only endless dark sky and stars on it, and the sun in a huge gas cloud of dust ...
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The lifting hostess is divided by the happiness of a neighbor. Enlighten. Says to her husband:
- Go, see how they are so it turns out everything is smooth and quiet.
He came to the neighboring house, plucked under the open window. Watches. Listened. And the hostess is just an order of magnitude in the house. Vaza dare wipes from dust. Suddenly the phone rang, the woman was distracted, and Vaza put it on the edges of the table, and so that it was about to fall.
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One day a man came to the sages and says:
- everyone says you're happy in family life, Tell your secret of happiness.
The sage looked at him attentively, smiled and called his spouse. A minute later, a beautiful woman entered the room, but already an elderly woman. She sadly greeted and asked her husband?
- Yes, dear, why are you called me?
- Favorite, please put the dough for bread.
"I'll put it now," the woman replied.
After 15 minutes, she returned again and said:
- Dear dough is ready.
"Good, and now add to it the most excellent oil from our basement and nuts that we left for a cake for the holiday of our daughter," said the sage.
- Well, now I will do.
After a few minutes, the woman returned to the following instructions.
- Now add to it the dough chalk from our yard and put everything in the oven.
- Well, all now I will do how you said.
After 30 minutes, the spouse was already standing near her husband, holding a strange loaf of bread in her hands.
"Of course, there is no such thing, throwing it into our dog," said the sage.
"Good," the woman replied.
The man who came for advice and observed it all was very surprised by such behavior from the wisdom wife. She never objected and did not shift on her husband. A man decided to do such an experiment with his wife.
Fasting goodbye to the sage, he headed for his home. There, a man saw his wife with girlfriends for cups with tea. He went to the room lay down on the sofa and his team voice called:
- WOMEN, quickly go here.
"I can't, I'm busy," she shouted to him in response.
"Come here, I told you," the husband repeated.
The woman reluctantly came to him and asked irritably:
- What do you need?
"Go and knead the dough for a cake," said the man.
- Why, at home a lot of food?
"I said, go and quickly kneading the dough," he said again.
A few minutes later she returned and said that everything was ready.
- Now go and add our most best oil And all the nuts that we have.
- Yes, you! These are nuts for a festive cake, at my brother's wedding, the woman shouted.
- Perform, since I said.
The wife gladly looked at her husband, and went to do how he ordered. Ten minutes later she returned again.
- And now go and add to this dough gray clay that Sarah is lying.
- Did you really crush?
"Go, do the way I said," the husband repeated.
After half an hour, the woman returned and threw a cake to the sofa to her husband:
- I wonder how you will eat it.
- And I will not eat. You will go and give it a dog and a cat, "the man said.
- Yes, no, you will go and give your masterpiece yourself.
She turned around and went to her girlfriends. Another week, the woman was embarrassed over her husband and told this funny story with his acquaintances. The man could not stand such a shame and again went to the sage for advice.
"Why do you all work, and you live happily, and I repeated everything you showed, and my wife still laughs in the face."
"Everything is pretty simple, I never shout and not command, I ask and always protect my spouse." She is the key to my family happiness.
- And now what should I do, go and search a new wife?
- No, this is the easiest way, but believe me, you will live with her, as with the first wife. You and your spouse need to learn to respect each other, but you still have to do everything you need to be happy.
"Yes, I do everything for her," the husband of the sage objected.
- And what, she is happy? You got married to love each other long and happily. And you have the opposite, you swear, every day and understanding between you.
He went, lowing his head home. In his path, he saw the field on which many colors grew. He narrowed him a big bouquet and brought his wife, but she had already slept. A man did not wake her and put flowers in a vase near the bed on the bedside table.
Waking up in the morning, he saw rich breakfast On the table for many years. His beauties wife stood beside him and gently looked at him. The husband approached her hugged and kissed. From that day, he gave her flowers every day, paying attention to her and peace and love reigned in their house.
It took 5 years, and the young guy knocked into their house:
- Hello, they say that you are very happy to live with your wife, tell your secret.
- Go, my wife just gathered a furnace of an unusual cake ...
