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« , we talked with you that if family relations do not improve over the years, this is not quite normal. After all, when we devote our time, energy and attention to something, this aspect of our life begins to grow, improve and develop. And in the end it brings high-quality and tasty fruits to everyone's joy.
So the question immediately arises, what does it mean to devote your time, effort and attention to relationships? What does it mean? How is it to develop and build them? How to improve relationships and avoid family problems? And how to maintain a relationship over many years of marriage?
Let's look at the first stage of the relationship first. When a man and a woman just met and they are in love for the first time, it seems to them that everything can be overcome, and that this euphoria and mutual interest will never pass. Indeed, in order to chat until two or even five in the morning, to walk for hours under the windows and get bored immediately after they parted, absolutely no effort is required during this period. Everything happens by itself.
And they think it will be like this forever. It seems that such relationships will never end, and those adults who assure that all this will pass in time, they simply do not understand anything.
But as sad as it is to hear, such relationships can actually end. And there is only one and only chance to extend them for many, many years. And this chance already depends on you. If a man and a woman have a desire to create a happy union, to maintain relations at the proper level and quality, then they will definitely achieve this. After all, in fact, much is not needed. You just need to understand the basics, the foundation of what needs to be done for this. And also understand what not to do.
So, after the first stage of the relationship has passed, you have successfully married, or began to live together in a civil marriage, the first three dangers await you:
- quickly get bored with each other;
- to do too much, but not what is actually necessary for joint happiness and to maintain love in the family;
- start thinking that you already know everything about each other, respectively, the partner may become uninteresting to you.
When living together, with constant communication and everyday meetings, your relationship can gradually move into just a familiar background. And now you will no longer be pleased with the return of a man from work, and a man will begin to take for granted that a woman cooks for him and cleans around the house.
And after a while, it will begin to seem to you that you have already heard this story a hundred times, which your husband tells you at dinner, and at the same time you will begin to “forget” how it delighted and amused you before.
Gradually, it will begin to seem to you that you are doing so much for the family, devoting so much time and effort to your relationship, and your man does not appreciate or notice this, and every year it only gets worse.
Here, let's look at these points in order.
First. What to do to quickly not get bored with each other?
I hope that you have heard such a thing as personal space, the desire to be alone (alone), loneliness and so on. So, every person, to a greater or lesser extent,
you need your own space. His personal time, when no one will bother him, when he is left alone with himself. This is necessary for both men and women. True, young girls for some reason do not always accept this natural need in themselves, and they are very aggressive and resentful when their boyfriend wants to be alone, meet his friends without a girlfriend, just lie down and listen to music, take a walk around the city, and so on. .
A lot of scandals in young families arise precisely because of this desire of one of the partners to be alone. Then it begins to seem to the second partner that she (he) has fallen out of love, that she (he) has become uninteresting, and so on.
Understand the main thing - solitude and the desire to be alone for some time is a natural human need. Simply, for some reason, many people reject it in themselves. But pay attention to the children. They do not need the constant presence of adults or other children in their lives. Children need some time to be alone. After all, each of us remembers how we built a “shelter” under the table and spent some time there.
But why, then, as adults, we begin to deny, first of all in ourselves, and then in the people around us, this need for solitude?
Remember, in order to maintain relationships, so that your family is happy and strong, give each other the opportunity to be alone with your thoughts, meet with your friends, and even just lie down and lie down for a while and do nothing. And at these moments, try not to call, do not send messages to the phone and do not come up to the sofa every five minutes with the question: “Darling, how are you feeling, maybe you want to drink a fruit drink? Would you like to watch a movie together? etc.
If you feel uncomfortable at such moments, you are bored or have nothing to do with yourself, start studying something, master new areas of life, gain new knowledge. You can learn English, complete a massage course, enroll in a drawing course or a dance studio.
At the end of this paragraph, I would like to add that it is very important to leave a man alone for a while. I don't mean going on vacation alone or going on long business trips. Now we are talking about the fact that if your man works, and spends evenings and weekends at home, then try to “send” him at least half a day off to take a walk on the street, or to a bathhouse with friends, for training, or, if possible, to the office and so on. This is written in detail in the book by R. Kirranov How to make a man fall in love with you for life. Or Don't run after a man, let him run after you.. Give yourself this time. Spend it with benefit and pleasure, just relax, read your favorite magazine, take a walk in the nearest park, sit in the silence of the trees, think about yourself and your life.
Such hours of solitude are vital and necessary for every person. If you follow this simple rule throughout your life together, then this alone will strengthen your relationship.
After all, even the most delicious, exquisite dish sooner or later becomes boring. But after all, it becomes boring if you eat it every day, or even several times a day. But if you alternate it with fasting days, then choking may never happen.
The second mistake, or danger that can spoil any, even the best relationship, is the desire of a woman to do everything “perfectly”.
For me, it still remains a mystery. But for some reason, many girls and women believe that men appreciate the fact that a woman constantly cooks, that the house is perfectly clean, that she washes, smears, strokes, washes, and then, exhausted, lies on the sofa in the evening and reproaches her man that she I came home from work tired, I did my homework all evening, and the man doesn’t even appreciate it, not to mention that he doesn’t help.
Yes, I totally agree with these women. If we are talking about the average man, then they actually don’t even appreciate it, they simply don’t notice it. In fact, they don't care if you wash the floor twice every day, or twice a week. I don't think they'll even notice that the floor hasn't been washed for two weeks in a row.
Also, for many men, especially those who are not yet spoiled by women, it doesn’t matter whether they eat potatoes or pasta, or the first, second, third and, in addition, dessert.
They also don’t understand why they change their shirt every day and what difference does it make if this sweater matches his socks in color or not.
And even more so, not a single normal man understands what all these “victims” of his woman were for, if now she lies in a deranged state on the couch and nags him for what, in fact, he did not ask her to do. What is really important for men, read in the book “12 secrets of managing men. How to tame the obstinate".
He does not understand why all this is necessary. After all, one of the main needs of a man was and is to tell his woman about his exploits, to brag about how he flunked Vasya Petechkin from the first (well, maybe not from the first, but these are already trifles), how he successfully signed the contract, and also on weekend is going to arrange a sortie with his beloved on nature.
And you can cook dinner together. What man would deny himself the pleasure of being a hero and going shopping for loot and then delivering heavy food packages home?
What man will deny himself a portion of admiration from his woman when she throws up her hands and enthusiastically says: “Well, dear, what would I do without my hero, wow, what heavy carpets, and you shook them all out. And this washing vacuum cleaner, how cleverly you manage it, after all, the equipment feels a man’s hand, but it doesn’t obey me at all.
And if you have children, connect them to household chores, while praising each other: “That's what a great dad you have. And the earner, and an attentive man, and helps at home, and spends time with us. And the husband, meanwhile, can praise his wife, tell the children about what a smart mother they have, and a talented woman, and takes care of herself, always understands him perfectly, understands his affairs and always supports, and so on.
In general, be one team, move in the same direction. It is better to talk and understand what is important for you to see from each other than to live your own illusions about what is important to another person and what he appreciates. Then, with a vengeance, bring these illusions to life, after which you also take offense at your partner.
Read about the third mistake in the article "How to keep the interest in the family and the novelty of communication."
Sincerely, Anastasia Guy.
Instruction
It is important to surprise a man. Therefore, do not forget about unpredictability, surprise, mystery. Let your image be completely unsolved for your beloved. Since all women are naturally artistic, it will not be difficult for you to transform from a homely, cozy hostess into a femme fatale vamp or a seductive frivolous coquette - depending on the circumstances. Of course, it is important to observe a sense of proportion here, otherwise not only the partner, but also you yourself will cease to understand who you really are.
Preserve and respect your individuality, originality, uniqueness. And let your beloved know that in your face he has acquired a priceless treasure, a precious stone with the brightest facets, which must be cherished, blown off dust particles, cherished and cherished.
But treat your heart friend with respect, sincerely appreciate his good qualities, do not skimp on praise and affection. Sometimes you can add raisins and pepper in the form of whims, pouts and an offended look. But again - do not overplay, have time to stop in time.
Don't be clingy and pushy like a fly. If a man is thoughtful, preoccupied, sad, but is in no hurry to explain to you why he is in such a state, do not rush to ask questions. Offer a delicious dinner, sit next to you, gently hug. The main thing is that he feels your genuine sympathy, indifference.
No matter how much you want to constantly be near your beloved, delve into all his affairs, share everything, everything that is in your soul - do not do this. You must have your own activities, your own personal territory, your own secrets. No need to turn into a bosom girlfriend.
By the way, about girlfriends. Be restrained enough with them, do not take out "dirty linen in public", do not talk about your intimate affairs - this is both ugly and fraught with side effects. It is necessary to talk about the innermost - important and relevant - only with your man. Then a special, spiritual intimacy will appear between you. And it will become very difficult to get bored with your loved one.
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- how not to annoy a man
If you want to control the behavior of your spouse, then do not try to explicitly control him. When your motives become clear to a man, he will begin to try to free himself from the tenacious bonds of your control in order to be free. Therefore, act wisely.
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Show your husband your love for him. The open manifestation of your feelings (love, care and tenderness) will work better than any pressure. There is still a child in each of us who needs a warm attitude. In cases where you need something from your spouse, you can temporarily not show your feelings, and he will follow your lead. Such is the nature of man, he is ready for a lot.
Let your husband be who he really is. Don't try to change his character or teach him new habits. Let him feel free in the relationship. The more you can allow your husband to do the various things he wants to do or not do, the more affectionate and submissive he will become towards you. This will be his gratitude to you for the fact that you love him for who he is.
Encourage the male ego. Let your spouse feel that he is in charge. It is very important for men to feed their sense of self-importance in this way. Seek his advice and respect his opinion. It is especially effective to do it in public.
Be diplomatic when asking your husband for a favor. Address him with a smile, keeping a calm intonation in your voice and benevolence. Avoid demanding tone. Of course, you should not use such things as tantrums and scandals, this will only alienate your spouse from you.
Keep sex at its best. As time goes by, become more and more passionate. Always be aware of how you look and what clothes you wear. Try to always be on top, just like on the day when. Don't let the sexual routine settle in your marital space. Do not punish your husband with a refusal. Always be affectionate with him, support his interest in erotic relationships, kindle the flame of passion in your family bed.
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Relations between a guy and a girl who have not yet decided how serious their feelings are, resemble a complex dance. In it, partners change places and roles, trying to find a common rhythm and style. The slightest quarrel and disagreement can become a reason for resentment, everyone is afraid to make concessions so that they are not perceived as weakness.
Instruction
If you just recently met and exchanged phone numbers, then it will not be very difficult to forbid yourself to call first. After all, you are not yet very familiar and are not at all sure that this is the prince you are waiting for. In this case, you will be able to cope with the desire to call. Just forbid yourself to do this, remembering the wise saying that there is nothing worse than an obsessive woman, and continue your normal life as if there was no meeting.
In the event that your relationship has already gone far enough and you don’t want to lose yours, then there is nothing shameful in calling on your initiative. Especially in the event that a quarrel or a tense situation arose through your fault. And only if the reaction to your call was negative, forbid yourself to call again. Do not sit at home waiting for a phone call from him - meet friends, chat, be among people.
Get all your common photos out of sight, hide all his gifts. Do not call his friends, avoid companies where you can meet. Try, even if it will be very difficult, to delete him from the list of acquaintances. If he does not make contact, there is no point in your attempts. By doing this, you will only humiliate yourself, but you will not achieve anything. Put an end to the relationship.
Change everything possible: clothing style, hairstyle, hobbies. During this period, the main thing is not to get depressed and not to doubt yourself, your attractiveness. Devote the time freed from dates to yourself: start exercising in the fitness center, go to the pool, run in the morning in the park. In addition to the fact that physical activity can distract your thoughts, it will help you put your figure in order, give you a feeling of euphoria that arises from exertion. And euphoria is a good mood and a feeling of happiness.
Find something to do that will also help you forget about wanting to call first. Go on a trip, change the environment, meet new places and people. The world around you is so diverse that there is no point in limiting yourself in new acquaintances.
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Years of living together with a husband can lead to a routine in a relationship that once shone with bright colors. To change a sluggish and boring family life, try to take the initiative and start with changes in yourself.
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Be independent. Both you and your soulmate may accumulate a certain number of questions, a to-do list, and unpleasant surprises in a day. Do not pour on him what you can decide for yourself. Of course, no one forces you to move cabinets alone, but you shouldn’t complain that a kitten broke your favorite cup, or start endless conversations about the injustice of your bosses either.
Take into account personal interests. Set aside at least a couple of hours a week to indulge in your hobby. For example, sign up for a language course or take up acrylic painting, master hand-made or interior design, attend dog shows, or purchase a pool pass. By the way, the latter will give not only emotional, but also physical relaxation, which will allow you to throw out tension, invigorate, and at the same time hone your figure.
Do not let everyday life "eat" what you once began to live together for. If you start noticing that every day is similar to the previous one, invite your husband to do something together that you have never done before. It is important that this is not limited to the scope of your apartment or house. For example, take couple dance classes, put on a puppet show for your children or your neighbors, go paragliding, or take a solo trip to places you've never been before.
Talk to each other. Know how to listen to your loved one, strive for a dialogue, which must necessarily end with pleasant words addressed to each other. More often say warm words for which "everything was not the right moment." The original way to come to such a conversation would be a date. Arrange to meet in some cozy place (especially for this you can buy a beautiful dress that your husband has not seen yet) and just give each other the feeling that both of you are still loved and desired.
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Folk wisdom says that men "love" with their eyes. If you feel the first signs of cooling in your relationship, do not rush to make a scandal. It is better to soberly analyze the situation and take a number of measures, including to improve your appearance.
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Pay attention to your appearance. Perhaps you should pay more attention to yourself: sign up for a fitness club, visit a solarium, a manicurist and a beautician. Maybe your chosen one is really so attracted to the external data of girls that he simply cannot see a beauty in you. There are also a great many opinions about beauty, it is worth warning against bold experiments with appearance, such as: green or crimson hair, as well as excessive tattoos, piercings and the like - men are most often conservative and are not able to appreciate your creative impulse.
Think about it and try to honestly answer the question for yourself: what does my young man need? Undoubtedly, here is the comfort of home, and the ability to cook borscht, and cooing at the family hearth - those simple priorities that everyone was oriented to from childhood. But does yours need it? Do not be offended if he coldly looks at homemade pies. It is possible that his element is extreme, and food is fast food. Try to take it for granted, so as not to leave later.
Don't "saw" it. There is nothing worse than a girl itching like a pesky fly. If your boyfriend needs to be alone with himself and his feelings, you should not immediately try to figure out the relationship and find the reason. Give him the opportunity to "sit in his own hole" and recuperate.
It is best if you have some kind of joint hobby: skiing, biking, sport fishing trips or home canning. It's incredibly close. Common interests and a circle of acquaintances appear, and this is no longer so easy to part with.
Do not overdo it with the demonstration of your own intelligence. There is nothing worse than publicly "putting in a puddle" your chosen one, simultaneously exposing him as an ignoramus. Male pride is very vulnerable, and such an act will be enough for a serious quarrel and, possibly, parting.
Watch yourself. Dress with taste, meet friends - in a word, take time for yourself. After all, for a man whose day consists of 95% of the process of earning money, only 5% remains for communication. Accordingly, try to make sure that meeting with you brings him only pleasure and positive emotions.
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When a passionate relationship has died down for some reason, and you feel hurt or, worse, still love him, your hand reaches for the phone to tell your ex-boyfriend everything you think of him. Or, at worst, just hear his voice.
Instruction
Delete all his contacts. The less these painfully familiar numbers will catch your eye, the faster the phone number will begin to be erased from your memory. Even if all your thoughts are filled with pipe dreams that things will still be good between you, if you don’t have a number, you will be less tempted to call your ex at any time of the day.
If possible, rid yourself of those things that remind you of his existence. If everything is decided, and you definitely won’t be together, why do you need the extra pain and memories that a towel accidentally found by him or a shirt you forgot can cause? But before clearing the area, hide the phone away or even give it to a friend for the evening so as not to inadvertently break loose and call the ex.
The next time you want to dial his number, take a moment to think about what exactly you are going to tell him. If you have prepared another stream of angry cries or tearful pleas for a return, then it is unlikely that the guy will immediately ask for forgiveness and return. It is likely that he simply will not talk to you or will put you on the "black list". Try to write him a letter, the volume and text of which will be absolutely free. Pour out on paper what you think, without being embarrassed by your own thoughts. Only at the end, do not send the letter, but burn it or simply tear it into small pieces.
Start occupying free space, time and thoughts with new objects, people, interests. Try to keep an active lifestyle, fill your day with activities, and in your free time try to avoid loneliness. As trite as it sounds, you need time in this situation. How much it will be needed is unknown, but only you decide how you will spend it. Therefore, help yourself cope with the breakup and try to look forward with optimism.
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The passion of a girl for a guy, unfortunately, is not always mutual. If you understand that a young man will not reciprocate, you should try to do everything to stop wanting him.
Instruction
If you're feeling passionate about a guy who doesn't want you, you need to do whatever it takes to eradicate that feeling. Try to look at the representative of the opposite sex, causing your desire, with different eyes. It probably has a lot of flaws. First, pay attention to the manner of his behavior. Maybe he uses silly gestures when communicating with people, uses foul language, or has some bad habits. Try to find something in it that will annoy you. Secondly, you should look at his appearance. Perhaps the guy has ugly legs, short stature, overweight, or unattractive facial features. The emphasis on his external negative traits can also discourage your desire a little.
The second way is that you can stop communicating with a young man who is attracted but does not want you. Eliminate visits to places where you may encounter him, change your social circle, do not answer his calls and messages. As soon as you stop seeing him, most likely, you will begin to gradually wean from his presence, and also forget about your non-reciprocal desire.
It is believed that often in such situations the so-called “wedge by wedge” method helps. Try to pay attention to the other guys around you. Surely among your acquaintances there is a more attractive representative of the opposite sex, to the seduction of which you can switch in the future. Even if the object of your lust is in the same company with you, but try not to notice it. Cast all your spells on the other guy. Maybe in this way you can not only kill a painful desire in yourself, but also cause someone who, even though he didn’t want to be close to you, but flattered his pride with your unrequited feelings and senseless adoration.
If all your thoughts are completely occupied with dreams of intimacy with a young man who does not have a reciprocal passion for you, try to distract yourself. Come up with an interesting activity that will absorb you. Start improving yourself, learn some needlework, go in for sports, take a great interest in cooking, immerse yourself in work. The last lesson can not only save you from an obsessive stupid idea, but also bring you financial benefits. In addition, if you start to take care of your appearance, perhaps over time the young man will even turn his precious attention to you and he himself will begin to show attempts to get closer to such an attractive representative of the weaker sex.
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Psychologist Nastya Butenko (@butenko_psy) - about why you don’t have to wait for “butterflies” in your stomach all the time from relationships, maintain independence from each other and let “everyday life” occupy all the space in a relationship.
Nastya Butenko Psychologist
Don't expect the pink pony stage to last forever.
The first thing to understand for both men and women entering into a relationship: butterflies in the stomach and the feeling of flying will not always be! The stage of "pink ponies" will definitely end, and after it there will be other stages that need to be overcome. When crazy love passes, ideally it gives way to affection, warmth. It becomes more than passion. The problem is that many consider the new stage to be the fading of relationships. And they do nothing to change the situation. This is the road to nowhere. Entering into a relationship, do not harbor illusions and calmly accept the end of the candy-bouquet period as the norm. Read the rules for communicating with your husband.
Keep your independence
Many experts, for reasons I don't understand, advise a couple to find a common cause that will unite and bring them closer together. I am categorically against it. It rarely works. Most often, a common cause begins to irritate - a man and a woman begin to swear even more. If each partner has their own life outside of the relationship, it is always a pleasure for them to return to them every day and share their successes with a loved one. The ideal option is when the other half does not understand anything about your hobby at all - he will be interested to know this from you (there will always be a topic for conversation).
Don't let "everyday life" take up all the space in a relationship
"Bytovuha" is a story about how everyday and banal things begin to play a greater role in relationships than the relationship itself. Figuring out who's going to take out the trash or do the dishes becomes more important than sex and being together outside the home.
Oddly enough, but “everyday life” is an important stage in a relationship. It is at this moment that people open up and become more understandable, close and warm to each other. Another thing is when the solution of everyday problems occupies the entire space in a relationship.
Sometimes in such cases, the best way out is the division of responsibilities in the initial stages of the relationship. It is also important not to climb into the partner's area of responsibility. For example, if Sveta dusts the shelves, her partner Sasha does not comment on how best to do it. If Sasha is responsible for plumbing, Sveta does not advise him which product is best for cleaning pipes. This doesn't always work. There are people for whom "everyday life" is a way to be together. When a person understands this peculiarity, there are no problems. If not, communication is difficult.
Remember: when all life begins to come down to an apartment, a summer house and a garden, this is not a very good indicator. People withdraw into themselves and fixate on relationships.
They just sit in different corners and go about their business. And then the relationship itself loses its value.
At the moment when "everyday life" becomes a problem, it is important to sit down and honestly tell each other what is happening. It's not that you're not interested in each other. Silencing problems leads to serious consequences. Sometimes one phrase gives the key to their solution.
Don't be afraid to make plans together
It’s not customary for us (they will jinx it if nothing works out about the plans). And that's the problem. Already at the initial stage, two adults can assume what will happen next - this is normal. There is always a lot of energy, warmth and positive emotions in discussing the future. When people understand that talking about such topics is not difficult, dialogues can become an inspiration for both.
It is possible and necessary to talk about children, cars, joint housing. Ask your partner what his career plans are, whether he likes what he does, what he would like to achieve. This dilutes the situation “here and now”, leading away from the very “everyday life” that we talked about in the previous post.
Don't ignore the sexual realm
Don't forget about the sexual realm. She shouldn't suffer. At the same time, you need to understand: it is impossible to constantly be in an excited state, looking at each other. When passion begins to fade as you move into a new phase of a relationship, accept it. And then the development of events will depend on what people want from relationships - some do not need this passion at all. If it is important - agree and do not be afraid to experiment.
Interview and text: Natalia Kapitsa
The most beautiful thing that can happen in the life of a man and a woman is love. No one will argue that these feelings, given to us from above, must be protected and cherished all our lives. After all, no laws and principles of life are important to this feeling. But what to do in that situation, if this feeling begins to subside and because of this, people who were once in love begin to relate to each other in a completely different way? So, the topic of our today's article is: “Men and women: how to fight so as not to get bored with each other? » We hope that thanks to our advice you will be able to save your feelings and find harmony and understanding in your relationship.
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Before answering the question: "How to fight so as not to annoy each other?" and solve this problem, it is necessary to know all kinds of ways to get out of this situation. These methods should be consciously perceived by both women and their betrothed. Only in this case can you make sure that you do not get tired of each other and keep your love. Remember that for a long-term and romantic relationship, you need to live only with the feelings and emotions of your beloved man and vice versa. Otherwise, you will be united only by a feeling of affection for each other. Attention is what should become the main core of your relationship, and only then will you be able to look at each other with a loving look.
Image of the ideal partner
Try to imagine that your partner is the most ideal person (at least not on the whole planet, but only for you), and you, man and woman, are truly one. If you are tired of some of his actions, words and deeds, just sort it out in yourself and try to look at your loved one with completely different eyes. Only in this case will you be able to turn all the accumulated shortcomings, which in some way even repel you, into pluses. And the new image that you try on your loved one will help you re-ignite a spark in yourself and bring back your old feelings. Become more than just a couple for each other and prove it with your relationship.
Unique ability to surprise
In order for you not to get bored with one another, you need to constantly and mutually surprise your loved one, making him unforgettable gifts and surprises. This will certainly help to dilute the situation and return your relationship to the original romance. Just forget about how long you have been together, and as schoolchildren, dive headlong into passion and love. Remember that monotony can completely eradicate all feelings and make it so that people will not be comfortable and not pleasant to be together. So act and make pleasant surprises for each other.
Fight for love without any masks
Of course, don’t say anything, but in order to restore your feelings to their former strength, there are many ways that have one common essence. One of these ways is to perceive a person as he is. It is immediately necessary to show all your frankness and devotion, namely to admire and be proud of your partner, and then you will definitely not bother each other. Sometimes, when men or women feel that they have begun to annoy one another and their relationship is gradually going to break, you just need to come to terms with the fact that a person cannot be changed, and this is his usual and familiar look. It is necessary to be able to put up with habits, shortcomings and accept each other for who you really are. Remember that all people are not perfect, which is why we begin to be overcome by the feeling that the once beloved person has begun to cause fatigue and boredom. Just do not rummage through other people's shortcomings and openly demonstrate your own. In a word, improve what you have.
Let's remember how it all began
Initially, people always fall in love with each other's positive traits. But over time, this all dissolves like a myth, and in fact, in fact, these features do not disappear anywhere in either a man or a woman. They just merge with the everyday turmoil of routine life. Therefore, spend more time together and still try to consider and identify those features that you once fell in love with.
Six tips to help you fight for your feelings
First advice. Try to have as many positive and pleasant episodes as possible in your relationship, and as few bad things as possible and thoughts that something might not work out for you as a couple. Of course, no one is immune from scandals, discontent and reproaches, but, nevertheless, try to have as few of them in your life as possible.
Second advice. Express your emotions, feelings and experiences to each other. Never keep it all in yourself, and if you want to confess your love, by all means do it. Mutual understanding and openness will never let you lose heart, and you can never lose faith in your loved one.
Third tip. Remember that violent quarrels that quickly end in passionate and loving reconciliations are very effective in refreshing and preserving feelings. So try to ensure that all your conflicts end in an unforgettable flash of love and carnal pleasures.
Fourth tip. Find out once and for all all your disagreements, and what you do not like in the relationship. Only after that you will be able to calmly forget about conflicts and strained boring relationships.
Fifth tip. Try to build your relationships very competently. Let them be everything: from love to hate. Such versatile relationships perfectly help to dilute the routine and boredom. Share everything that hurts with each other, especially for secretive men who always strive to keep everything in themselves. Trust is something that will never let you down.
Sixth tip. Try to live with warm memories of how it all started for you. This will undoubtedly help you return to the beginning of your romance and defuse the current situation with the novelty of romance and feelings.
So we shared with you the main tips on how to dilute your monotonous life and restore new strength to former feelings. Remember, you always need to fight for your feelings and whether you are tired of them or not - this is just superficial tinsel, busting which, you will not only revive your love, but also keep it for a long time.
