How to originally start a conversation with a girl on the Internet VK, Vkontakte, examples of dialogue and phrases, read in this article.
A virtual conversation is good because the interlocutors do not see each other's live reactions and can take a pause for a thoughtful answer.
Without additional worries, the dialogue at a distance proceeds in a relaxed manner.
But fears will finally dissolve if the guy correctly enters into a conversation with a girl.
How to start, start chatting with a girl on the Internet:
1. Study your profile
When meeting a girl on the Internet, a guy should look at his page. Obscene language, jargon, explicit photos are prohibited.
Before you start talking to a girl, take a close look at her profile. Examine the photos, the page will certainly contain information about it: birthday greetings, posts, music.
3. Say hello and ask about her interests
With an interesting girl, the first remarks will arise by themselves. The first message in the style of "Favorite movie -" Titanic "? Did you fall out of the 90s here? no good. Praise her cat, clarify the name, breed, diet is acceptable.
4. Compliment
The girl is pretty. Tell her about it. You can’t talk about the merits of the figure, the chances of effective acquaintance and further communication will fall before our eyes. Talk about your appearance in a streamlined way: “You are special. I have never met anyone like you." Without platitudes about captivating lips, sparkling eyes. Get blacklisted.
5. Make a joke
If you are a joker by nature, use your natural gift. Start the conversation with a casual joke. It is desirable that it was invented by you for a specific acquaintance, and not spied on the Internet.
According to the information on the page, determine the range of topics in which it understands. After that, greet her and ask if she has any advice. Young girls are especially responsive and willing to give instructions.
In order for the first message to turn into a long conversation with a girl, follow the following rules:
Write correctly, following the rules of spelling and punctuation. Install an auto-corrector on your computer for safety net.
Hints of a sexual nature are unacceptable. The subject of sex is forbidden.
A good option to start a conversation would be the theme of the girl's hobby.
It is premature to talk about feelings in the first messages. Excessive obsession is meaningless.
If the chosen one read, but ignored the first message, there is no point in writing again. More stupid than this step are only attempts to be indignant and organize a skirmish.
How to start communication in VKontakte
Social networks greatly simplify the efforts of guys to meet an interesting girl. There you can pick up a girl according to your interests, then communication will take place without rough edges and awkward hitches. VK remains the most popular and convenient network for virtual meetings. In addition to photos of the "goods face" it provides information about the place of study, work, friends, favorite music and hobbies.
Procedure when meeting a girl through the Vkontakte social network, it’s easy to remember:
1 . Look at the page of the future interlocutor.
2. Adjust personal information from your page to her hobbies.
3. Clean up bad photos, join her groups, add her music, put a similar status.
4. Leave a comment under her avatar.
5 . Send a private message with a greeting.
6. Offer virtual friendship.
What to write in a private message?
The stereotype of personal messages when meeting people speaks of a lack of imagination. It is better to use an individual approach if you want to meet a beautiful girl. We still recommend asking for help. If she is a polyglot, ask to translate the phrase into several languages, an athlete - find out an effective exercise for triceps.
Exist taboo words when meeting a girl on a social network: hello, you are beautiful, how are you, how are you, beauty. Most men use them. Our task is to stand out from the crowd.
An emoticon as the first message will be perceived negatively. Statistics show that the probability of receiving a response to such a message is small.
Phrases for dating a girl on the Internet
If the muse of flirting flatly refuses to visit you, apply blanks. We bring to your attention the following examples of the phrase-cliché: 
"Do you meet charming guys?"
"Hello! Can you tell me how to boil pasta?
"Hello! How many people did you kick today? I am five! Wow, the girls were cunning!
“I am calling the police immediately. You stole my heart!"
“Are you such a beauty in real life, or is your friend a photographer by profession?”
“Maybe I’m not the first to write to you with a proposal to meet, but the best. Shall we check?"
“You are inimitable! Do you mind if we switch to "you"?
“I stumbled upon your page by accident, and now I am tormented by curiosity. There is one question…. How often are you invited to the registry office?
"What are you going to do tonight after our date?"
“There are things that are so easy to imagine side by side: the moon and the stars, butter and porridge, honey and Winnie the Pooh, you and me…”
"Hello! I want to write a book: what do girls want so much? Won't you help?"
“You are so gorgeous that I am ready to drink all the water from the bathroom after you!”
"Hello! I didn’t recognize you right away…”
" Hello! Is it okay that I look so smart?
"Hello! Do you think I want to meet you? Did not guess. I want to invite you on a date!”
How to start a conversation with a girl in VK examples and phrases
Any dialogue with a girl begins with a greeting. Let's consolidate the information we've learned.
"Julia, hello! We are in the same group "Socionics" (for example). I've been sick of this topic for a long time. And you? By the way, my name is Artem. Common interests will make the girl respond.
"Hi Natalia! I'm sorry to trouble you. My cousin's birthday is coming soon. I haven't seen her since I was five years old. I don't know what to give as a gift. I decided to ask her peers on social networks. Do you mind helping? What would you like to get for your birthday? The request for help will not leave her indifferent.
“Hello girl Maria! If without the official part, I saw your comment about the concert of the group "____". So did you like it or not? I am a longtime fan of theirs. Recommend?" Once again, common interests overlap.
"Hello Tatiana! I beg you, become my ... muse! Such an unexpectedly romantic start will intrigue the interlocutor.
“Today, a gypsy woman predicted that I would see a girl in (clothes color), and she would become my destiny. Does the description remind you of anyone? The young lady, in anticipation of a great and bright love, will grow mad.
"Hello Kate! Lech is our mutual friend. Saw your comments on his wall. You seem to be an extraordinary person. Maybe we can hang out a little?" Mutual friends act better than joint interests. Then the task of getting acquainted is greatly simplified.
The first message is not too intimate or intrusive. His goal is not to make a repulsive impression at all, but to achieve addition to friends.
How to correctly build the first conversation with a girl
First response received. Now you are friends. What is the plan for continuing the conversation? If a girl is financially secure, it makes sense to show her social status. Write about material possessions, a father's position, or an overseas resort.
If a girl does not prioritize material wealth, you will have to think carefully. Talk about the vacation, spent or planned, about the future. The conversation should be mutual, not your monologue.
To ingratiate themselves, many guys make up stories about country houses and cool cars. If you do not rule out meeting in reality, you should not lie. Facts that you prefer not to talk about, it is better to omit, but not to embellish.
Proper communication with girls on the Internet implies:
Be positive.
With a positive person, the conversation is easy and fun. We leave all life's problems behind.
Don't be a whiner. Complain less. Women don't like it.
Remember dignity.
Don't impose. The girl has the right to refuse, it must be accepted calmly and without persuasion.
Be polygamous.
Do not slow down near one girl. Write to a few young ladies. So you get a unique experience of virtual correspondence.
Be careful.
Changes in her appearance in photographs play an important role in your non-verbal contact. This is done just for you.
Hear.
Communication will not last long if one of the interlocutors speaks too little. Give your partner a chance to speak.
Don't ask too difficult or negative questions.
Do not reply to all messages quickly.
Create the illusion of being busy, log off the network periodically. 
Does the girl herself find topics for conversation, send emoticons and answer questions in detail? Time to ask her out! She shows a clear interest in your person.
Job.
Favorite theme of a workaholic.
Money.
Don't get carried away with the topic of money. You run the risk of appearing greedy.
Hobby.
By touching on the topic of a hobby, you can learn a lot of interesting and even strange things.
Religion.
Be careful with religious topics, do not say too much. Better discuss religion in other countries of the world.
Ancient monuments and interesting places of the city.
The topic is boring, but it can reveal your erudition and become the starting point for a date.
Computer games.
The topic is relevant if the girl is fond of them.
Start a conversation with what you see on the page. Suppose she quoted a famous philosopher. Why not say that you are fond of his teachings?
There are no quotes on the page, but there are recipes? Cookbook to help you. If a girl says she loves to cook, you can ask for her favorite recipe.
A complete layman in fashion trends does not need to write about this. Discuss a recently watched movie and invite your interlocutor to the cinema.
How to interest a girl in VK example of a dialogue
Hello! I saw your status. You want to go to Yegor Creed's concert.
- Hello! Yes, I'm a fan of his.
- A friend gave me two tickets for today. Will you keep me company? I'm too lazy to go.
- Don't know. But we have not met yet.
- Let's meet at the club!
- I agree. Write my phone number.
Hello! You stunned me!! I can't look away! You are something extraordinary!
- Then enjoy!
- Laughing at me! And you with a twist, I like it. As soon as I saw you, inspiration appeared, and all the work went like clockwork.
- You make me blush.
- Let's go for a walk, my queen! What if I'm your destiny?
- Perhaps, my eloquent subject, I agree!
Hello, I'm interested in your page. - Hello.
- We have mutual friends, do you visit the Taurus gym? - Yes, you know me?
- No, but I saw you there a couple of times. Maybe we can get to know each other?
- OK.
- Have you been going to the gym for a long time?
- About a year.
- Visible results.
- Thank you.
How about a run together?
- Fine. I will be at Dynamo at 7.00.
- Till tomorrow.
Hello. I'm sorry for digressing. I am conducting one sociological survey. Your opinion is important to me. Can you answer the question?
- Which?
- What should I write to you to get acquainted and get consent to go on a date?
Hi Natalia! I am Anton. I stumbled upon your page by accident and wanted to get to know you. You have such kind eyes.
- Hello Anton. Thanks for the compliment.
“Maybe we can meet for a cup of coffee?”
- I'm sorry, but I don't go on dates with the first person I meet.
- You can go to my page - there is quite a lot about me. By the way, I also have a dog. Do you want to go to a cafe, maybe we can walk in the park with the dogs? How about the weekend?
- Fine.
- Oh, what do I know about you ... I did not believe at first.
- It's a joke? But we do not know each other.
- You combine two qualities that men usually do not like. But I consider them positive.
Yes, I'm special. I'm happy for you.
- How I'm interested in special girls ... Write your phone number, I'll tell you what I was talking about.
- Here is my number. But I still don’t understand anything ... I was intrigued.
- Fine. I'll tell you tomorrow!
- Hello! How are you
- Hello! Fine. How are you?
- Wonderful! What are you doing now?
- I'm going shopping with a friend.
- Cool. Am I distracting you?
I'm almost gone, but here's your message. There is still some time.
- OK. How long have you been on this site?
- No. And you?
- Some years. How often do guys meet?
- Sometimes they write.
Have you met anyone in real life?
- A couple of times.
- Good luck?
- How to see...
- It's clear.
- I invite you to the cinema!
I don't mind, but not today.
Write your phone number, I'll call you tomorrow.
- (She wrote the number). I ran away.
“Here’s my phone number, you never know…
- OK!
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- Hello! What do you think about dating?
- Hello. What is your goal?
Tell me your phone number, I'll call you.
- Write down: ___.
***
- Hello! You have beautiful eyes. How are you?
- Hello. Great. Weekends, after all.
Tell me your phone, I want to call.
- So fast! For what? What are you looking for on my page?
— I'm on the site for communication. I want to call you to hear your voice and talk not on the Internet. You can't write everything.
- My number:___.
Hello, I'm Kostya. Cool guy. You're an interesting girl, so we should meet next week.
“It’s strange that such a cool guy has only two people as friends.
- Keep a link to another page.
- Another thing.
- I do not like long correspondence in VK. Can we go somewhere on the weekend?
- I don't mind. Where?
- Who gets to know each other like that? Silently added to friends ...
— Hello, Olesya! It doesn't make sense. If you didn't like me, you wouldn't add me. You agree?
- No! I always reply to messages so as not to be rude.
- So, I made a mistake in you, I'm ready to atone for my guilt. I have an offer for you...
Imagine you are walking down the street, thinking about something. Suddenly I appear on the way and say: “Hi! Are your thoughts no longer important? What is the answer?
-Smile and walk past.
-I'll slow down. She smiled, which means she likes me. But for some reason she didn't answer. Maybe she was embarrassed ... I’ll catch up with you and say: “Wait, my name is Seryoga! And you?"
- I will stop and say: “My favorite name. My name is Marina.
