At the “overture” stage before an acquaintance, it is not always clear whether the girl is a free bird or her heart is already occupied by some other gentleman. Therefore, the guys are lost, not understanding how to behave with the person they like. Despite the fact that almost every guy is adamant about his superiority and thinks that he will be able to “pull” the girl from the couple to him anyway, he still doesn’t want to look stupid, spinning around a busy girl. In fact, it is not so difficult to figure out a girl who is in a couple and is carried away by someone else. And believe me, for this it is not at all necessary to ask her leading questions or elicit this information from her friends.
1. Among the most obvious "symptoms" is a ring on the ring finger of the right hand. Nowadays, not all wedding rings are made of amber gold, hence the presence of a pale gold ring on a girl’s finger should not confuse you. This lovely lady is busy anyway. However, if you have "on hand" authentic information that this girl is not married, the ring may signal an engagement or simply be an offering from her chosen one or boyfriend. In any case, if she placed the ring exactly on this finger, this is a “Stop!” sign: she does not intend to start another acquaintance, connection, but, on the contrary, is against all this.
2. The second clear "symptom" is the lack of flirting with you. Although before her you firmly believed that almost every girl dreams of becoming your chosen one. Of course, in this case, you can greatly overestimate your capabilities. But if you really are a charming young man with whom young ladies easily converge, you can slightly wonder why the one that you liked doesn’t flirt with you. It may also be that she is only more impressed by guys of a different “role”. And if you have a chance to “spy” on her from the outside, take a look at how she interacts with other men. If a girl is busy, she probably won't flirt with anyone.
3. There is a separate type of girls called coquettes. She is mischievous with everyone, benevolent and flirts a lot. Therefore, in this case, it is much harder to establish whether the seat next to it is actually vacant or not. Sincere relationships are usually quickly formed with such girls, and the guys quickly begin to attack, without fear of disagreement, because it will not exist under any circumstances. The coquette will not say a firm “no”, she can only evade the answer. It is wrong to imagine that a coquette flirts with literally everyone. This is far from true. And therefore, if she shot at you with her eyes, then at least you carried her away. You can offer her to go somewhere as many times as you like and not see a refusal, but, on the contrary, as if to feel the approval of this idea in her voice. But weeks, months will pass, and you will not have a date with her. This just manifests itself as a “symptom” of the fact that she has someone. You do not occupy her at all as a gentleman. Because the coquette usually will not miss her, and if she wanted to, she would go on a date with you after the first invitation.
4. If you are close enough friends - let's say you work or study together - then the girl may well treat you as her man. But here you are hinting at “throw her home”, since you are in one direction, and the girl begins to doubt this, compose tricks, trying in every possible way to avoid this possibility. Surely she has a boyfriend, and she is afraid that he or his friends might see how you gave her a ride home.
